Chinese on the mainland do not care how foreigners dress unless it offends their sense of propriety. Women should avoid clothing that is too revealing or too short. Short pants are gaining in popularity in China, so they do not attract as much attention on foreigners as they once did; however, a man with exceptionally hairy legs and wearing shorts will raise eyebrows, even in cities.

Because of the Mao jackets, presenting Chinese men with gifts of cuff links or neckties was absurd, but now when Western clothing is preferred, such gifts are not a bad idea.

When dining in a Chinese home, do not eat the last bit of any dish. To do so implies the hostess did not prepare enough.

Whenever your Chinese hostess or host apologizes about the quality of the food—too salty, not tasty, whatever—reply with a compliment.


Quick Tips for India

The head is considered the seat of the soul. Never touch someone else’s head, not even to pat the hair of a child.

Beckoning someone with the palm up and wagging one finger can be construed as an insult. Standing with your hands on your hips will be interpreted as an angry, aggressive posture.

Whistling is impolite and winking may be interpreted as either an insult or a sexual proposition.

When dressing casual, short-sleeved shirts and long pants are preferred for men; shorts are acceptable only when exercising.

Women must keep their upper arms, chest, back, and legs covered at all times.

Gifts are not opened in the presence of the giver. If you receive a wrapped gift, set it aside until the giver leaves.

Business lunches are preferred to dinners. Hindus do not eat beef and Muslims do not eat pork.

Never point your feet at a person. Feet are considered unclean. If your shoes or feet touch another person, apologize.

The use of leather products including belts or handbags may be considered offensive, especially in temples. Hindus revere cows and do not use leather products.